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Update!
I am very thankful to Sergi (E), Gianni (I), Jean-Denis (F) and hopefully soon others, that help me out with the translations.

“My Blog”
Will be from now on published in 4 languages.
(hopefully more in the future)
All new pages will be in the following order:

English
Castellano (español)
Italiano
Français

And hopefully later also in:

Deutsch
Nederlands
Português
российский
عربي

Enjoy reading…

We had a very hard weekend playing with friends, hard in the meaning of intensive… that brought me of the idea to write the next episode of “the act”…

But first this:
We were a group of 5 guys, 1 active 4 versatile guys… now first in my eyes there are NO versatile guys, or better said not a lot. Out of the 10 versatile guys only 1 or 2 are really versatile. In general they are bottoms but if they want to have some ffun they need to be versatile because you don´t find as much real Tops these days. Is this a good thing? No in general not, they are nice or good bottoms but do not really want to fist, they try; first: they are not really into fisting and did not take the time to learn or paying attention to the active part, second: they fist like they want to be fisted without paying attention to the other passive guy, third: they really do not know how to fist. This all can be very uncomfortable for the other passive guy or even better said very boring. Back to the weekend, my boyfriend learned to fist in the last 2 years but prefers to be fisted, he is handling well the active part (not perfect, but tries real hard), there was another (top) guy who was exactly really versatile, he learned the active side first and since February of this year is getting more bottom in fist (already bottom in the rest of his fetish), the other 2 guys are bottoms even when they say they are versatile! This you find out the way the want to get fisted and the way they fist. Like I said before a bottom can take control but this means he is not enjoying the act, you have to let the Top taking control. Relax and give some confidence to the Top guy. If you cannot, this means you´re surrounded in general with those so called “versatile” guys and you learned not to trust them, a shame. The experienced top or bottom will find this out immediately, it will break the party. Continue reading

First the English Version. Versión española en medio. Versione italiana di seguito.

So we had a break or we just moved on and we meet up with another guy… either way we will start like I wrote in the previous parts and go a level higher this time…

• I’m not gay, I’m bi but that’s probably close enough far as the target audience for the question goes. Yes, it’s perfectly possible to orgasm through anal sex / prostate stimulation alone. The orgasm produced is very different to that normally experienced, it being a whole-body type orgasm with an enormous head-rush that completely wipes me out and leaves me reeling, as opposed to the more common orgasm which really is just centered mainly on the genital area. It can be either ejaculatory, or less commonly none-ejaculatory, though both seem to feel pretty similar so not sure what’s going on there? Continue reading

Michelangelo saw it as a punishment after death reserved for sodomites, for us it is the most beautiful thing that we try, we desire, we program. If this is a punishment, I hope to be damned!

(E) Miguel Ángel lo vio como un castigo reservado para los sodomitas después de la muerte, pero para nosotros es la cosa más bonita que probamos, que deseamos, que programamos. Si esto es un castigo, ¡quiero ser condenado!

Looking and Touching

Many of us have never really looked at our anuses. Doing so is an excellent and very safe way to start exploring anal play. Becoming familiar with the anal region, as like with any other part of the body, it is useful in many ways. It gives us an idea of what we like and don’t like; it facilitates communication with partners about sex and it helps us to get to know our own bodies better.
If you’re squeamish about looking at or touching yourself down there (and even when you’re not), take a bath or shower first so that the area is as clean as you like.

Don’t be in a hurry 
You’ll need a block of uninterrupted time, ideally when you can be alone for a couple of hours. Even if your exploration only lasts twenty minutes, it will be more enjoyable if you don’t feel rushed and if you have plenty of time afterward to think about what happened. Rushing is often a way to avoid intimacy and exploration.
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Many of us spend a lot of time keeping in shape, but few of us do anything specifically to strengthen the anogenital region. Doing a few simple exercises on a daily basis is easy. These exercises can be performed while doing other activities, plus you can get a big pay-off in sexual enjoyment, as well as a touchable health benefit in the form of strengthened pelvic region overall. This may aid in the prevention of sexual dysfunction and certain such as prostate cancer.

Kegel Exercises
The late gynecologist Arnold Kegel worked with his patients in the 1950’s to develop a series of exercises to strengthen the PC (and vaginal) muscles. These exercises have become known simply as “Kegels”. There are three exercises you can do, and you can do them almost everywhere, even while bathing, shopping, driving or watching TV.
Kegels are easy to do, they feel good, they don’t take any real time out of your day and best of all they offer touchable sexual benefits. 
First, steady practice will enable both men and women to prolong and intensify orgasm and erotic sensations in general.  Continue reading